Reflection of A Woman

Thoughts On Long Night Shift Duty (Embracing A Restless Mind)

  For more than a year, in my hope to shift my career from a demanding job in laboratory quality control to healthy and safety, I took a job with a shifting work pattern. The occasions for night shift work required me to keep awake throughout the whole night. I felt like I am stationed… Continue reading Thoughts On Long Night Shift Duty (Embracing A Restless Mind)

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Reflection of A Woman

Becoming A Mary In A World Plenty of Marthas (Then Watch The Coffee Intake Gets Lesser)

Recently, I have been brushing my teeth with baking powder after toothpaste. I had the need to do this extra step after brushing and before gargling because of the tint of brown color left after I drink coffee. I have never been a coffee fan until a few weeks ago when a colleague brought me… Continue reading Becoming A Mary In A World Plenty of Marthas (Then Watch The Coffee Intake Gets Lesser)

Poems

How To Love The Woman

Praise her with a flower. Touch her with a smile. Love her with your actions. Value her by your time. Allow her to speak. Then, listen with your ears. A man who loves her will understand her fears. A man who loves her will be moved with her tears. She is defiant, brave and strong.… Continue reading How To Love The Woman

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis, Going To Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? Part 3

Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. Since you have been seeing this man, I trust that you found essentials qualities in this man worthy to be considered for marriage. How should we look at the outside should be as good as how we look in the inside. We are going to… Continue reading Dear Sis, Going To Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? Part 3

Reflection of A Woman

A Love Letter to A Woman (No Woman Deserves To Be The Other Woman)

Dear Woman, How have you been? I purposely went to your direction, to the regular place where you seek rest. Others may see your task that you do alone to be unexciting but I know this is your time to be alone with your heart and escape after a tiring encounter to keep an affection… Continue reading A Love Letter to A Woman (No Woman Deserves To Be The Other Woman)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B “Going To Mass For A Date, How Should I Look?” Part 2

Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. I searched in the internet and found no general dress code during Catholic mass, but, only found this from the Catechism of the Catholic Church: To prepare for worthy reception of this sacrament, the faithful should observe the fast required in their Church. Bodily demeanour… Continue reading Dear Sis B “Going To Mass For A Date, How Should I Look?” Part 2

Stories

I Have Forgotten How It Is to Date (Bringing Your Giftedness In The Dating Arena)

I've just created my Tinder account after finding few decently nice selfies in my camera roll. OK, not only few but a lot! As this occasion happened that is checking on photos in my phone, then this tells that I have free time. Free time and contended. So, why not use this time to make… Continue reading I Have Forgotten How It Is to Date (Bringing Your Giftedness In The Dating Arena)