Stories and Reflections

To Please and Not to Impress (Becoming Me.)

________________ Having heard a feedback about this blogsite last year, I was determined to write a piece of writing worth - sharing, worthy for everyone to expose their names that they are reading, worthy of hitting the star - button, worthy of praising- comments. But, having that in mind, I found myself always hitting the… Continue reading To Please and Not to Impress (Becoming Me.)

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Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, How to Reject A Nice Guy Nicely?

Dear Sis B, How to reject a nice suitor without him getting hurt and discouraged? Love, Sis Black Pink _____ Dear Sis Black Pink, May the peace of Christ be with you. I must be honest that I have been staring at the photo of Saint Josemaria Escriva, the Saint of ordinary life and founder… Continue reading Dear Sis B, How to Reject A Nice Guy Nicely?

Stories and Reflections

Dear Very Single Heart (I counselled my heart and I felt joy)

Sometimes, the most enlightening words that can dispel the darkness gripping the course of our life will not come from mouth of well-known speakers neither from written words from self - help books' authors or generally from other's prodding, but will come from our own words, from the counsel of our own heart. Last Christmas,… Continue reading Dear Very Single Heart (I counselled my heart and I felt joy)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

When Bruises Are Visible to Your Eyes (Dear Sis B, He Hurts Me)

__________________ Dear Sis B, Before we wed, we kept a happy and stable long distance relationship for years. We did not meet online but, after, I decided to work overseas our communication happened mostly through online. During the first month of our marriage, I found tons of messages from one girl in his phone. All… Continue reading When Bruises Are Visible to Your Eyes (Dear Sis B, He Hurts Me)

Stories and Reflections

When You Build A Relationship With God, He Will Not Miss to Make You Know and Appreciate Your Being

I drew - out another annual goals for this year of 2019. Writing is easy but thinking and choosing the priorities are the hardest. Through the years, I have learned that the bottle neck of all my dreams is not about other persons but me, myself and I. An essential amount of maturity led met… Continue reading When You Build A Relationship With God, He Will Not Miss to Make You Know and Appreciate Your Being

Prayers

Prayer for Wisdom

Trust that the Lord hears all our prayers. He answers those with the best of His love. For this new year, may you find His wisdom to His answers to your prayers. Sharing a prayer. Prayer for Wisdom I ask God for strength that I might achieve, I was made weak that I might learn… Continue reading Prayer for Wisdom

Stories and Reflections

I Am Not Praying for A Spouse But to Find A New Grace This Year

Report says that only 2% of the entire population of the wholewide world has the chance to keep their childhood friends until they reach their death beds. I am one of that 2%. And that is one of my greatest blessings. I lost Grace, my friend since the time I can not read nor write,… Continue reading I Am Not Praying for A Spouse But to Find A New Grace This Year