My Writings

Reflection of A Woman

Sharing My Tips On Talk – Giving (Dear Sis B)

Dear Sis B, I would like to ask for your prayers for I will be speaking in one of these weekends. Would you kindly share tips for preparation and actual talk? Thank you. Sis ________ Dear Sis, May the peace of Christ be with you. It is a privilege to pray for you during these… Continue reading Sharing My Tips On Talk – Giving (Dear Sis B)

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Reflection of A Woman

A Just Man Who Will Not Put You To Shame (He Who Protects Your Honor)

And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to send her away quietly Matthew 1:19 ------ Jesus, the Saviour, the Messiah was raised with this kind of man, a man who is just, righteous, considerate, compassionate, loving and protective. I believe God continues to raise men like… Continue reading A Just Man Who Will Not Put You To Shame (He Who Protects Your Honor)

Prayers

My Prayers for Every Woman Today

1. May you find someone worth keeping and may you find that someone keeping you back. 2. May your eyes be opened to the truth and believe that truth will set you free. 3. May you find someone who recognises your light and takes care of your scar. 4. May you find true friends who… Continue reading My Prayers for Every Woman Today

Stories and Reflections

When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

Loving my posts, please hit "like" and "share" buttons found at the bottom. I would truly appreciate it.  Thank you for reading. God bless. I  must admit that in my long years with young praying adult singles, I can not count using both hands how many times I have consoled a sister (lady) because she… Continue reading When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

Reflection of A Woman

關於長夜輪班制的想法 (接受一個不安的心靈)

關於長夜輪班制的想法 (接受一個不安的心靈) 一年多以來,我希望將我的職業生涯從嚴格實驗室質量控制方面的工作轉變成健康和安全,於是就找了份輪班工作的模式。夜班工作的場合要求我整夜保持清醒。我覺得我就像駐扎在一座燈塔裡,一直守著整個夜晚。 在燈塔裡忙著守著就像在更高的視角看東西,而同時感受到風的涌動然後漸漸的感覺事情終於變得有意義了。在這時候,我的心與我不安的心靈相處。 以下就是我那些想法: 1. 在我所屬的單身教會社區,我們稱男朋友/女朋友為上帝的禮物,或稱"GG"。 我的大腦問:"如果這個人和你分手了,怎麼辦?這個人現在就被稱為上帝的詛咒嗎?" 我的心說:"主充滿了恩典和憐憫,當然,他不會因為分手而使一個人成為詛咒。前主的禮物成了上帝的老師。" 我的大腦同意了。 2. 我的大腦又問:"老闆曾經3非常果斷。可現在,他常常改變他的規劃。他就是因為這些白象漸漸失去錢財。" 我的心說:"這是因為老闆失去了他的支柱,他就變得優柔寡斷了。" 我的大腦:"是哦.....他的妻子。" 我的心說:"妻子(女人)加強了丈夫的決定。" 即使是由男人和女人在教會服務的領導人也就這樣如此的說。 難怪在聖經中說過:"找到一個妻子的人就能找到什麼是好並且得到了主的幫助。" 3. 寂寞是上帝賜予的情感。孤獨是好事的,因為就像其他情緒一樣,它只是一時的。如果人們可以學會完全去接受它,那麼就不需要通過成癮,酗酒,賭博,性交或購物來逃避。 4. 如果人們可以去學會接受他們不安分的想法,他們也終究是會學會馴服它的。 5. 當你在自己的社交媒體上發帖時,你不會在乎喜歡你帖的數量。當你以這種方式發帖時,任何發送"喜歡"的人都是同意你帖子的朋友。 我想發表更多的問題,但現在已經凌晨3點了,我必須更新系統了。 所以,在此刻我睡了。

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

When You Instantly Know That He Is Not That Into You   (Reacting to Jimmy Fallon’s Interview With Nicole Kidman)

(Finding something meaningful in this post? Please show support. Please find the like and share button at the bottom and that will mean a lot of appreciation. ) In my bible reading of the gospel according to Mark, I encountered this verse again. This time it spoke to me in a different way. It spoke… Continue reading When You Instantly Know That He Is Not That Into You   (Reacting to Jimmy Fallon’s Interview With Nicole Kidman)