Stories and Reflections

Unwrapping A God’s Gift (Lessons from Unwanted Travels)

This is at Bayfront Avenue I am writing from a bus, to a long journey to home. To say this an expected travel, is an understatement, it is an unwanted travel. This is how it happened; I am one bus stop away from home and has already walked around more 2km when I felt that… Continue reading Unwrapping A God’s Gift (Lessons from Unwanted Travels)

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Stories and Reflections

When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

I must admit that in my long years with young praying adult singles, I can not anymore count using both hands how many times I have consoled a sister (lady) because she was not “chosen” by someone she liked and someone else was chosen and that someone else who was chosen happens to be someone she… Continue reading When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

Reflection of A Woman

Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Worth It, Sisters)

 While I finalized the letter to a man the other night, I can't help but think the stories of heartbreak of women caused by fear, confusion and distraction of men they spent time with.(Dear Bro, Faced with too many options? Just choose.)I must admit, too, that I had to stop my feeling of irritation while… Continue reading Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Worth It, Sisters)

Reflection of A Woman

Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

While I finalized the letter to a man the other night, I can't help but think the stories of heartbreak of women caused by fear, confusion and distraction of men they spent time with. (Dear Bro, Faced with too many options? Just choose.) I must admit, too, that I had to stop my feeling of… Continue reading Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, When To Give Up? (Finding The Desire of Your Heart Worthy of Good Fight)

  Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you.I can sense your frustration but be not because the feeling of frustration will only be for awhile but the grace of the Lord is endless, as our Redeemer lives! (Job 19:25-26) Where is the heart in your question, sister? A few years ago I… Continue reading Dear Sis B, When To Give Up? (Finding The Desire of Your Heart Worthy of Good Fight)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)

Dear Sister,  First of all, thank you for allowing me to make your question my first  "Dear Sister B Letter" here. Sister, of all questions why that question? Why loh ? 😅 All through - out the many years of my membership in SFC (Singles for Christ) here in Singapore, brothers approached me to be their prayer… Continue reading Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)