Stories and Reflections

What it Takes to be Mr Right (A Love Letter)

I have been serving single people who love and honor the Lord for almost two decades now while, I, myself is a síngle person. I have heard and some witnessed stories of female single friends of how they fell in love and heard and witnessed, too, a lot of single people experienced the biggest heartbreak… Continue reading What it Takes to be Mr Right (A Love Letter)

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Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis, Going To Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? Part 3

Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. Since you have been seeing this man, I trust that you found essentials qualities in this man worthy to be considered for marriage. How should we look at the outside should be as good as how we look in the inside. We are going to… Continue reading Dear Sis, Going To Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? Part 3

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B “Going To Mass For A Date, How Should I Look?” Part 2

Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. I searched in the internet and found no general dress code during Catholic mass, but, only found this from the Catechism of the Catholic Church: To prepare for worthy reception of this sacrament, the faithful should observe the fast required in their Church. Bodily demeanour… Continue reading Dear Sis B “Going To Mass For A Date, How Should I Look?” Part 2

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

“Dear Sis B, My Works Are Not Appreciated”

Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. I once in that shoes and it does not feel better compared to that feeling of loss over a favorite pet. (I belong to the family of cat lovers that brings me to many circumstances of crying because of death of old cats or kittens).… Continue reading “Dear Sis B, My Works Are Not Appreciated”

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, What Are My Deepest What-Ifs? (Addressing Younger Generation of Women)

Dear Sis B, What Are My Deepest What-Ifs? (Addressing Younger Generation of Women) At this time of my life where I am on my fourth decade of my existence, (Thank you Lord )I have accumulated few of greatest what-ifs. It is my hope that I can send accross an encouragement to think on your decisions… Continue reading Dear Sis B, What Are My Deepest What-Ifs? (Addressing Younger Generation of Women)

Stories and Reflections

Not Only In Heaven, But, Also Here In The Land of the Living (Prayer for Singles)

I believe that I should see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13 Through the years of 1-to-1 heart talks with single people, I've come to realise that the most powerful talk or words a person who wants to change and experience a breakthrough should hear is self-talk. Self… Continue reading Not Only In Heaven, But, Also Here In The Land of the Living (Prayer for Singles)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)

Dear Sister,  First of all, thank you for allowing me to make your question my first  "Dear Sister B Letter" here. Sister, of all questions why that question? Why loh ? 😅 All through - out the many years of my membership in SFC (Singles for Christ) here in Singapore, brothers approached me to be their prayer… Continue reading Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)