Stories and Reflections

When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

I must admit that in my long years with young praying adult singles, I can not anymore count using both hands how many times I have consoled a sister (lady) because she was not “chosen” by someone she liked and someone else was chosen and that someone else who was chosen happens to be someone she… Continue reading When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

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Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, How to Stay Generous But Still Save? #adulting

Dear Sis B, Lately, I’ve been trying to take hold of my finances for my future plans. But how can be one be thrifty but at the same time still stay generous to others? I firmly believe in my heart that Jesus wants us to be generous not just on our time and talents but… Continue reading Dear Sis B, How to Stay Generous But Still Save? #adulting

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, Why God Seems to be Unfair? What’s wrong with me? #seriesofheartbreak

Dear Sis B, Why God seems to be unfair? What is wrong with me? I grew up without a father. My boyfriend of 5 years just left me without explanation. My second boyfriend who proposed to me backed – out and got hitched with his friend. Is this the price that I have to pay… Continue reading Dear Sis B, Why God Seems to be Unfair? What’s wrong with me? #seriesofheartbreak

Reflection of A Woman

Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

While I finalized the letter to a man the other night, I can't help but think the stories of heartbreak of women caused by fear, confusion and distraction of men they spent time with. (Dear Bro, Faced with too many options? Just choose.) I must admit, too, that I had to stop my feeling of… Continue reading Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B, When To Give Up? (Finding The Desire of Your Heart Worthy of Good Fight)

  Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you.I can sense your frustration but be not because the feeling of frustration will only be for awhile but the grace of the Lord is endless, as our Redeemer lives! (Job 19:25-26) Where is the heart in your question, sister? A few years ago I… Continue reading Dear Sis B, When To Give Up? (Finding The Desire of Your Heart Worthy of Good Fight)

Prayers

Dear Lord, Encourage Me, Thy Servant

When things are going in my way not according to how I desire those to be, encourage me, Oh Lord. When job applications do not seem to merit employers' calls, encourage me, Oh Lord. When the business is cutting - down on manpower and overhead cause, encourage me, Oh Lord. When medical reports seem to… Continue reading Dear Lord, Encourage Me, Thy Servant

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)

Dear Sister,  First of all, thank you for allowing me to make your question my first  "Dear Sister B Letter" here. Sister, of all questions why that question? Why loh ? 😅 All through - out the many years of my membership in SFC (Singles for Christ) here in Singapore, brothers approached me to be their prayer… Continue reading Dear Sister B, I Am Friend Zoned. (You Are Not Alone. LOL.)