Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Shall I Date A Jobless Bachelor? (Dear Sis B)

Dear Sis B,Shall I Date A Jobless Bachelor? _________________ Dear Sister, May the peace of Christ be with you. The fact that you are asking me this question tells me that you have second thoughts of seeing or spending time with this guy and financial means is something essential to you. I take your concern… Continue reading Shall I Date A Jobless Bachelor? (Dear Sis B)

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Prayers

I Offered A Rosary For All Readers (First Year)

I Offered A Rosary For All My Readers (One Year of Blogging)🎉🎉 Thank You, Lord. Today, 04 Nov 2018, marks the first year of existence of my self - hosted website (www.thechroniclesofbenia.com) . I only shared the link six months later. I need to think and imagine in my mind first the consequences of putting… Continue reading I Offered A Rosary For All Readers (First Year)

Stories

I Have Forgotten How It Is to Date (Bringing Your Giftedness In The Dating Arena)

I've just created my Tinder account after finding few decently nice selfies in my camera roll. OK, not only few but a lot! As this occasion happened that is checking on photos in my phone, then this tells that I have free time. Free time and contended. So, why not use this time to make… Continue reading I Have Forgotten How It Is to Date (Bringing Your Giftedness In The Dating Arena)

Stories

It Is This Season (My Ode For My Forgetful Mind)

The Lord teaches us how to handle our sufferings, our heartaches, our imperfections. True joy is not the absence of suffering but the presence of Jesus. It Is This Season (My Ode For My Forgetful Mind) It is this season where you work Until midnight for an emergency hotline It is this season where you… Continue reading It Is This Season (My Ode For My Forgetful Mind)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis B “Going to Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? “(Part 1)

  Sister: Dear Sis B, I'm seeing this man and I invited him to hear mass with me on Sunday. How should I look? (For this day, let's address the physical part, the easiest one to prepare.) Dear Sis, May the peace of Christ be with you. Every woman whatever stage of life she is… Continue reading Dear Sis B “Going to Mass On A Date, How Should I Look? “(Part 1)

Stories and Reflections

Not All Women Like Red Others Prefer Hues (How Other Women Show Their Interest)

Last night while walking home coming from a prayer meeting, I out of nowhere suddenly remembered what a guy friend told me before. "If you are interested over a man, show it." It didn't quite gave that strong blow in my mind then, around five years ago, not until now... when the night is sweet… Continue reading Not All Women Like Red Others Prefer Hues (How Other Women Show Their Interest)

Dear Ate B (Sister Asked; Benia Replies)

Dear Sis, How To Overcome Favourite Sins?

We are made in the image and likeness of God and I believe that the Lord placed a seed of desire to bear His likeness in the core of our being. And that seed needs to be watered so we can grow according to how He fashioned us. "You shall be holy for I am holy." 1 Peter 1:16