(Enclosed words are mine)
19 Sep 2017
Dear Journal,
In the quietness of working alone tonight, I finished the book of Steve Harvey. I remembered significant men that I dated. Gosh. Here are my learnings. Thanks, Steve Harvey!
1. Act like a man. Speak like a lady. Extra care for their ego. (Ok. Fine.)
2. Get some standards. They respect it. (I have a long list which one to drop, then?) [Scribbles.]
(A man who can marry in the Catholic church who loves and honors the Lord and loves and honors me completely. He must love me first.)
[Scribbles and tons of smileys.]
3. Let them know what you don’t want. (I will lessen this as I have promised the Lord. Be open that no one is perfect and that includes me, )
[Scribbles and tons of smileys.]
4. “We need to talk” scares them
(So, I will rephrase with “Can we just talk? Meaning I will do the talking and you will do the listening)
[Series of smileys]
5. Your time is your reward to them.
6. REWARD THEM IF THEY ARE WORTHY.
7. Ask them what they think about family, children when being asked to have a date.
8. Go back to number one.
After going through those points, it came to mind that those misses were a saving grace from damaging relationships.
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Thank you Lord for men 1, 2 and 3 and thank you for Your protection. I truly am grateful.
[Signed by me]
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Thank you for your kind reading and learning with me.
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